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I Become Sad When I Become Selfish



In reality, how other people decide to treat you doesn't tell us anything about you, it only says something about them. ⁣

Its never really about you. What other people do or say is always about them. Getting offended or taking it personally doesn't help you be a better person. It certainly doesn't help anyone else either.⁣

One of my favorite feelings to have towards others is curiosity. I'm fascinated by people and I love trying to understand them. ⁣

I ask myself, "What might they be thinking and feeling that causes them to act the way they do?" This has been a very productive approach for me. Instead of feeling bad about myself I become a more understanding and compassionate person.⁣